How many times have you been totally bowled over when your date gives you the cold shoulder after a few dates? Have you ever wondered why this happened? Was it something you did or didn’t do? Here are some little known dating tips, secrets and dating mistakes that could have led you to this point in your love life.

Being A Nuisance

When you go out with someone and when you have been doing it for a while, many men as well as women have the habit of “hogging” and hovering. They believe that now they are in a relationship, they have the right to be in their date’s face every time. Every relationship requires space. Even a husband and wife need to do their things on their own sometimes. Therefore, when you are dating someone,

• Do not ask them who they are with,

• Do not keep staring at her or him with love in your eyes,

• And do not insist on knowing his or her whereabouts at all hours of the day.

Avoid The “Love” Word

Telling someone how you feel early in the relationship is a sure fire way to get him out of the picture, fast. Men are very skittish when it comes to commitments. Therefore, even if you love him more than life itself, it is advised to wait for the appropriate time to confess your love. Apart from this,

• Stop asking him where the relationship is going,

• Stop being clingy and a nuisance,

• Stop making this relationship your entire life, have a life of your own.

• Stop being someone that you are not.

Be Cool

Whether you are a man or a woman, you should give the impression that you can be somewhere else as well as here. Also, it is important to say the proper things. Being overly talkative or overly funny to hide your nervousness will only result in the person looking for the nearest exit sign. Therefore, always give the impression that you are comfortable where you are, but can be comfortable anywhere else as well.

Avoid Pick Up Lines

Most men are famous for the “haven’t I seen you somewhere?” question. This will only result in the rolling of the eyes and a swift turn around. Pick up lines do not work with today’s woman. Be sincere and be confident. This is the best method to ensure that you will be seeing more of this date in future.

Dating is not easy. There are so many mistakes which one can make which will be disastrous to the relationship. However, avoiding the above mistakes will help you to have a better relationship with your date.